Lilian Jean Cole

1953 - 2009
LocationBarking, Essex
Age56 years
Cause of DeathHeart Attack
Date of Birth05/04/1953
Date of Death21/08/2009
Visitors624 since 05/09/2009
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How to explain my Mum.

She was the greatest Mum and person that I could have ever wished to have known. She was the life and soul of every party and every night out. We used to see live bands together most weekends and as soon as we got into the pub we would lose her, she would go to the front of the stage and this is were she would spend most of the night headbanging and jumping up and down.
She was a great person she made friends easily and touched everyones heart that new her.

Mum was born with a hole in the heart which was repaired when she was around six and was blind in one eye, she had 3 heart attacks in her late thirties, had two stents fitted after this. She was then diagnosed with Angina, under active Thyroid and Arthritis amongst other things but this did not stop her in life at all she would carry on regardless.

She married Roger Cole when she was 19yrs old and had six children all girls as they kept trying and trying for a boy but this wasn't ment to be. Sandra, Denise, Charmaine who passed away at 2wks, Corina, claire and Marcia. She has 6 Grandchildren Alfie, Codey, Tyron, Leila and Lee she also has an adopted Grandson Eric, also two that are in spirit Marshall and Daniel.

As you can see her life was quite full but she always made time for everyone. She would visit friends and family daily, look after my grandparents which she was still doing until the day before she passed away. I can't say enough about my Mum and how great she was. Mum full of life, life and soul a kind spirit who touched everyone she met, we all miss her so very much. Rest peacefully with Dad, till we meet again.

Love you. xxxxxxxxxx

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Miss you so much My Dear Mum xxx

2 years have passed by since you was taken away from us. Not a day goes without you in my thoughts and the pain has not yet eased. You was such a special woman and we was very blessed to have you as our Mother. I will love you always Mum and i miss you every day. Until we meet again xxxxx

Claire Cole (Daughter)

August 21, 2011

Miss you MUM xxxxx

Hey Mum, I still wake up believing that you are here, that you will Hold my child, wipe my tears, give me a hug. I miss you so very much when reality kicks in it breaks my heart. I know that you are safe and that dad is looking after you know. I love you with all my heart and miss you, till we meet again. xxxxx

Denise Cole (Daughter)

January 2, 2011

Don't think of her as gone away,
Her journey's just begun.
Life holds so many facets,
This earth is only one.
Just think of her as resting
from the sorrows and the tears,
In a place of warmth and comfort
Where there are no days and years.
Think how she must be wishing
That we could know today,
How nothing but our sadness
Can really pass away.
And think of her as living
In the hearts of those she touched,
For nothing loved is ever lost
And she was loved so much.

Claire Cole (Daughter)

August 15, 2010

Happy Birthday Mum. I miss you so much every day that goes by. The pain is still very raw and i dont want to imagine spending the rest of my life without you here. You were the best mother,nanny and friend that anyone could have ever wished to of had. Love and miss you always but i know that you are looking after us all. Give Dad a kiss for me. See you when we all meet again.xx

Claire Cole (Daughter)

April 5, 2010

Mothers Day love. xxxxxx

Hey Mum, not so happy mothers day for us all today. Its been just over 6 months since you left us suddenly, without a wisper, without a goodbye. You are missed more than you could ever imagine, a greater mum you could never find you are definately special and one of a kind. I miss our nights out down the pub rocking with the bands and they miss you and your big personality that shone through for all to see. You have left a huge hole in my life but I know that you are happy with Dad on the brighter side of life. No pain, no sorrow just resting and watching over us all till we meet again one day when I get my call.
I love and miss you so very very much, keep watching over us.
Love always and forever. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Denise Cole (Daughter)

March 14, 2010

Hey Mum xxxx

Thanks for always being there. Thanks for coming through with your messages. You were taken so suddenly from our lives with no time for goodbyes and I will always miss you. I know that you are watching over us all and will keep us safe. Thanks for being a great Mum, I will miss you always and forever. xxxxxxxx

Denise Cole (Daughter)

March 11, 2010

Hey Mum

Miss you so much and feel lost and empty without you. We know that you are there with dad and together again. I will love and miss you always you were the best parents in the world and now we have the best angels to watch over us all xxxxR.I.P with Dad

Claire Cole (Daughter)

February 2, 2010

i love you mum miss you so much

mum i still cant beleave that ur not this side of life nomore .im realy missing u so very much ,there ante a day goes by when im not thinking of you and expecting u to knock on the door or send a text or even ring love u allways and forever ,forever in my heart allways reast peacefuly mum xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Marcia Clarke (Daughter)

December 18, 2009

my mum u gone and there a big emtry hole inside me god i wish u was here with me now i miss ur kind and loveling way mum real;ly am missing u love u so much send kisses to dad nan for me love u all lots u

Sandra Cole (Daughter)

October 4, 2009

The best

Hey Mum,
Its been 5wks 3days since your passing and I still can't come to terms with the idea that you will never be around me for a cuddle, to talk or go to the pub or just being you the silly texts.
I know your now at peace with dad but wish you were here every moment of every day. I love and miss you so very much you are the best Mum I could ever have wished for. xxx

Denise Cole (Daughter)

September 28, 2009
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